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06 December 2007 @ 09:34 am
41/2 inches may not get you guys too excited...  
...LOL...but it was enough to shake people up around here! We had our first winter blast! It snowed all day while I was at work and I had the pleasure of brushing and scraping thick, wet, heavy snow from my car and driving home in bumper to bumper traffic on terrible roads with some of the nations worse drivers! LOL!

Since I live off of the main roads and the roads I live on are never cleaned off...aaaaaaaaaaaand the roads froze over last night, I had to walk to the main road to have my brother drive me in to work today. The road I live on is like a ski slope downhill for quite a long way and then back uphill for quite a long way before it hits the main road...so in nasty weather, I'm screwed! Oh well...I did get a nice cardio workout this morning walking to the main road and I have another one to look forward to this evening! LOL!
Su: firelightralphiere on December 6th, 2007 07:41 pm (UTC)
Yeah, it takes at least 7 inches to get me excited *snickers*

Be careful on the roads sweets!! *snuggles*
Markboywondermark on December 6th, 2007 10:01 pm (UTC)
Luckily, it's already melting away! :)
Deboraherryl on December 6th, 2007 11:56 pm (UTC)
It's snowed here to. Although, I don't think I can claim the nation's worst drivers. ;)
Mark: comic cloud paradiseboywondermark on December 7th, 2007 12:48 am (UTC)
Consider yourself very lucky, Deb! :)

Deboraherryl on December 7th, 2007 02:50 am (UTC)
dragonweirdragonweir on December 7th, 2007 12:02 am (UTC)
It is not how much you got but how it is used. A nice cardio workout is a good way to use 4 inches.

Hugz and keep safe
Mark: gay juicyboywondermark on December 7th, 2007 12:46 am (UTC)

Jase: Warning!slavetopassion on December 7th, 2007 12:55 am (UTC)
Don't fib to these boys and girls! You have lots more than 4 inches!!

Mark: gay RoboBitchboywondermark on December 7th, 2007 01:28 am (UTC)
Hahahaha! You are such an ornery boy! ~spankspankspank~
turtleinashell: turtle happy faceturtleinashell on December 7th, 2007 04:07 am (UTC)
I'm practically giddy over 2 - 3 inches...... that's expected here by morning. Sleet and snow falling now.
Mark: snowy wolfboywondermark on December 7th, 2007 02:24 pm (UTC)
LOL...well you be care with that 3 inches, Paul...driving, that is! ;)
erskie: Kitty Brainserskie on December 7th, 2007 06:23 am (UTC)
no, needs to be more than 4 1/2 before I'll get excited! LOL

Anyways I wanted to ask a friend of mine has just come out to me that hes gay, and hes really nervous about coming out to his family and others and telling the guy he likes. I've given him all the support and advice I can, but at the end of the day I'm a straight girl not a gay boy and I'm not entirely sure what to say to him....any advice?

love Sarah
guardian1 on December 7th, 2007 09:58 am (UTC)
Erskie asks whaddaya say to a gay
friend who has just come out? You
talk to him the way you talked to him
BEFORE he came out. He's the same
normal guy, the same friend. If you
feel obligated to say something about
his decision to step out of the closet, just say you love him for
being honest enough to make that tough decision. Then give him a hug!
Believe me, gay guys like hugs, m or f, as much as anybody. Maybe more!
erskieerskie on December 7th, 2007 10:23 am (UTC)
thats pretty much exactly what i have done, so I'm glad to know I'm on the right track! :)he knows I love and support him no matter weather hes gay, straight, bisexual or anything else in between. Its more telling his family and the guy he likes that hes concerned about, and hes asked me what he thinks he should do, and honestly I'm not sure how he should proceed or what to say to him....
Thanks for the advice!
guardian1 on December 7th, 2007 05:16 pm (UTC)
I'm afraid he's on his own with family and friends. Nobody can to it
for him, or even advise him what to say. Keep in mind that they may already know, or may at least suspect he's gay. His sharing his
"secret" may be a relief to everybody. But then, you never know. In the beautiful film "Latter
Days" about a Mormon guy who tells
his Mom how much he loves a guy, she
slaps him HARD and he bursts out
crying. And so do I -- every time I
watch it. Anyhow, just continue to
be a support to him, a good friend.
If he wants to cry on your shoulder,
say "Which one?"
erskie: School Ballerskie on December 7th, 2007 09:44 pm (UTC)

Thanks again for the advice :) I really appreciate it.

Mark: angel rainbowboywondermark on December 7th, 2007 02:30 pm (UTC)
He should let his family know that he is exactly the same person that they always knew and loved...nothing at all has changed. His sexual orientation was not a random choice...it was a birthright...he was born that way and so had no choice in the matter...he is who he is and deserves the love and respect of his friends and family now as before.
As far as the guy he's crushing on...is this guy a friend? Is this guy gay or straight? If the guy is straight, that is a big no no, honey!
erskieerskie on December 7th, 2007 09:42 pm (UTC)
hey mark

thanks :)

As far as I'm aware the guy is a bisexual friend of his....
Mark: gay uke huntboywondermark on December 7th, 2007 11:04 pm (UTC)
Awwwwwwww...he should go out somewhere with him...for coffee, for a walk on the beach, in the woods...something simple where they won't be interrupted...and just let him know and not put pressure on either one of them.Tell him that he's interested in him as more than a friend, but if he doesn't return those feelings the friendship is very important and your friend doesn't want to lose that. Does that make sense?
erskieerskie on December 7th, 2007 11:18 pm (UTC)
makes perfect sense :)
Mark: Calvin Hobbes Hugboywondermark on December 7th, 2007 11:55 pm (UTC)
He'svery lucky to have such a sweet friend as you,Sarah!
erskie: GIRerskie on December 7th, 2007 11:58 pm (UTC)
*blush* thanks

txrangerboi on December 7th, 2007 03:51 pm (UTC)
As it turns out, there is someone out there that can help you! What luck, huh?! Anyhoo, give this a try and see what you think.


i'm just happy that i could bring the two of you together.
Mark: comic Naruto smileboywondermark on December 7th, 2007 04:40 pm (UTC)
LOL! Since I'm at work, I'll play it safe and wait until I get home and click that link! :)
txrangerboi on December 7th, 2007 04:55 pm (UTC)
Something in the way i typed just said "horny" huh?!

LOL! It's OK, open it...just turn the volume wayyyy down. LOL! i promise, It's safe...and appropriate.
Mark: Nemo woahboywondermark on December 7th, 2007 11:07 pm (UTC)
SLEIGHS!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! COOL! I love em! :)