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21 February 2006 @ 11:33 am
Taken from Carrie, by way of Poe...  
the Peacemaker
Test finished!
you chose BX - your Enneagram type is NINE.

"I am at peace"

Peacemakers are receptive, good-natured, and supportive. They seek union with others and the world around them.

How to Get Along with Me

  • If you want me to do something, how you ask is important. I especially don't like expectations or pressure.
  • I like to listen and to be of service, but don't take advatage of this.
  • Listen until I finish speaking, even though I meander a bit.
  • Give me time to finish things and make decisions. It's OK to nudge me gently and nonjudgmentally.
  • Ask me questions to help me get clear.
  • Tell me when you like how I look. I'm not averse to flattery.
  • Hug me, show physical affection. It opens me up to my feelings.
  • I like a good discussion but not a confrontation.
  • Let me know you like what I've done or said.
  • Laugh with me and share in my enjoyment of life.

What I Like About Being a Nine

  • being nonjudgmental and accepting
  • caring for and being concerned about others
  • being able to relax and have a good time
  • knowing that most people enjoy my company; I'm easy to be around
  • my ability to see many different sides of an issue and to be a good mediator and facilitator
  • my heightened awareness of sensations, aesthetics, and the here and now
  • being able to go with the flow and feel one with the universe

What's Hard About Being a Nine

  • being judged and misunderstood for being placid and/or indecisive
  • being critical of myself for lacking initiative and discipline
  • being too sensitive to criticism; taking every raised eyebrow and twitch of the mouth personally
  • being confused about what I really want
  • caring too much about what others will think of me
  • not being listened to or taken seriously

Nines as Children Often

  • feel ignored and that their wants, opinions, and feelings are unimportant
  • tune out a lot, especially when others argue
  • are "good" children: deny anger or keep it to themselves

Nines as Parents

  • are supportive, kind, and warm
  • are sometimes overly permissive or nondirective

Renee Baron & Elizabeth Wagele

The Enneagram Made Easy
Discover the 9 Types of People
HarperSanFrancisco, 1994, 161 pages

You are not completely happy with the result?!
You chose BX

Would you rather have chosen:

  • AX (SEVEN)
  • CX (TWO)
  • BY (FOUR)
  • BZ (FIVE)

  • My test tracked 2 variables How you compared to other people your age and gender:

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    You scored higher than 28% on ABC

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    You scored higher than 28% on XYZ
    Link: The Quick and Painless ENNEAGRAM Test written by felk on Ok Cupid, home of the 32-Type Dating Test
    Poe: adorablediscordandnight on February 21st, 2006 10:46 pm (UTC)
    *flashes you the peace sign*
    That's groovy, man. *wink*
    Mark: flowers sparkleboywondermark on February 21st, 2006 10:49 pm (UTC)
    *Grin* Faaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaar OUT!
    A.M.ultimategirl on February 22nd, 2006 12:22 am (UTC)
    Mark: comic heartbeat Jerry mouseboywondermark on February 22nd, 2006 01:57 am (UTC)
    ~smmmoooooooooooooooooooooch~ :b
    dendroidmandendroidman on February 22nd, 2006 06:08 am (UTC)
    i got a two. i dont' understand the purpose of the numbers.
    Mark: comic oops puppyboywondermark on February 22nd, 2006 02:36 pm (UTC)
    Ignore the number and just read the description, Denbo! LOL!
    dendroidmandendroidman on February 23rd, 2006 12:54 am (UTC)
    i did lol. it was intresting and was right for the most part but then i was like wth.