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02 May 2008 @ 09:20 pm
So...for those who have asked how I've been doing, here goes...

As you know, everything started with daily severe migraine-type headaches last August and continued through several doctors and tests and medicines...stretching over months, until I finally found an incredible neurologist at The University of Md Hospital. She got me on the right meds and stopped the severe burning headaches and ordered MRIs of my neck. There they discovered something that was very disturbing, so she referred me to a neurosurgeon there at The Hospital (he's the head of neurosurgery). He examined me and the MRI of my neck and ordered a CatScan of my neck and X-Rays from different perspectives.

So, I went back to the neurosurgeon on St Patty's day and he had discovered that my first vertebrae is fused to the base of my skull...then there is a space...then my next two vertebrae are fused together. This causes lots of strain on me and lots of problems, but that's not the major problem. inside the two fused vertebrae I have bone spurs growing in towards my spinal cord leaving very little clearance. In June, I am to go for another series of MRIs, CatScans and XRays to see how much the spurs have grown. If the spurs grow into my cord, I'm told I will stroke or become paralyzed. My neurologist, whom I saw a few weeks later, says that my neurosurgeon is one of the best and that he will have to operate in the near future. Tha..tha...thaaaaaa...that's all folks! :)
02 May 2008 @ 02:16 pm
Just to keep my mind off of things, this is the RPG I have been playing while away. Jase is also a member. The membership is small, but growing with a very nice group of people. Anyone who likes to write is more than welcome to create a character and join (Warning:Must be 18+...Adult situations can and do happen).


"Come, take a trip in my airship,
Come sail away to the stars,
We'll travel to Venus,
We'll sail away to Mars..."

It's Modern day and mutants aren't liked. They group themselves together for protection and for other less agreeable reasons. One such group has taken refuge on an airship. There, they can be themselves. They are soldiers of fortune, taking what they want and then escaping into the air. Of course, there are other means of wealth that are more honorable. They harvest lightning, and sell it to the humans on earth who have lost the capacity to do it for themselves. Will you join the crew of the King's Ransom, and seek your fortune? Or will you hunt the dreadful mutants and join the Human International Law Enforcement? The choice is yours.

King's Ransom Mods
glacier Mark
_umbra Jase
light_chaser Ally
Email- kingsransomrpg[at]aol[dot]com
(Email Questions, Comments and Applications to the above address or PM a Mod)

King's Ransom OOC
Rules|FAQ|Storyline Info
Guidelines|Character List|Holds
Want Ads|Application
Friend Add- Locked|Member List- Locked

About the Game

Game Rating: NC-17
Age Limits: 17+
Mutant Based (non-XMen)
01 May 2008 @ 02:26 pm
...in the wake of the Luke/Noah uproar and the rant from our very own Jase, Perpetualfire (Andrea) gifted me with this great link...so I hadda share...


Oh...here's a pic of our naughty kissing boys... :)

29 April 2008 @ 09:33 pm
...but this is worth posting...

Got it from Jase who got it from Dennis...

The daytime soap opera “As the World Turns” has had an ongoing storiyline about a young gay couple (Luke and Noah)-- even if you don't watch the show, chances are you have come across mentions of it here on LJ or elsewhere on the net. The couple haven’t kissed since last September; recently they finally did get a couple of kisses on screen and it has caused the AFA (among others) to start a campaign against Proctor and Gamble, the sponsors of the show.

You can read about the American Family Association campaign here:


The AFA were kind enough to include the YouTube video of the kiss scene in their email with the warning "Content is repulsive." (BCH PLZ!)


Procter and Gamble is conducting poll about continuing the Luke and Noah storyline. Even if you don't watch but don't want to surrender to one group's hysterical homophbia and their trying to enforce unnecessary censorship, please call:


Press 2 for the Luke and Noah poll, and then 1 to vote to continue the storyline.

Don't let one section of the population decide what is or is not acceptable to watch--they have the same ability to turn the channel as anyone else does if they don't want to watch something.

The kissing is pretty chaste by soap standards--hardly something to get their collective knickers in a twist. I thought it was very sweet.

Then post this info in your own LJ. That way we can reach more people.

08 March 2008 @ 09:25 pm
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23 February 2008 @ 09:31 pm
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14 February 2008 @ 06:56 pm
12 February 2008 @ 05:25 pm
Maryland, Virginia and DC were at the polls today doing the American thing! Even though we had freezng rain today,I struggled through like the BoyWonder you expect me to be (LOL)...and cast my votes!

(Keeping my fingers crossed, Bryce, that you can add our Maryland Flag to your collection!)

Meaning...yes, I voted for Hillary! (Did I hear Dale pass out? Muhahahaha!!!!)

07 February 2008 @ 05:52 pm
Went to see the neurosurgeon today. Not sure what kind of news I have. Whn he looked at the MRI films of my neck he asked meif I had been in an accident or had experienced any other trauma. I told him that I hadn't. He went over the the films with me and pointed to the important areas and centered on an area pretty close to the base of my skull where the spinal cord seems to almost disappear. Then he did did ome tests on my hands and informed me that my right hand showed some hint of a disorder. The real fun part was when he told me that... "I've been in Neurology for 30 years and I've never seen anything quite like what you have".

So I have to go on the 18th for another series of tests, outpatient (thankfully), and then see the neurosurgeon again on March 10th. I see my Neurologist on March 17th. LOL...what a mess, eh?
I love his ornery smile

Accidental Pill Overdose Killed Ledger

Wednesday February 6 10:47 AM ET

Heath Ledger died of an accidental overdose of painkillers, sleeping pills, anti-anxiety medication and other prescription drugs, the New York City medical examiner said Wednesday.

The cause of death was "acute intoxication by the combined effects of oxycodone, hydrocodone, diazepam, temazepam, alprazolam and doxylamine," spokeswoman Ellen Borakove said in a statement.

The drugs are the generic names for the painkiller OxyContin, the anti-anxiety drugs Valium and Xanax, and the sleep aids Restoril and Unisom. Hydrocodone is a widely used prescription painkiller.

Borakove wouldn't say what concentrations of each drug were found in Ledger's blood, or whether one drug played a greater part than another in causing his death.

"What you're looking at here is the cumulative effects of these medications together," she said.

The ruling comes two weeks after the 28-year-old Australian-born actor was found dead in the bed of his rented SoHo apartment. Police found bottles of six types of prescription drugs, including sleeping pills and anti-anxiety medication, in his bedroom and bathroom.

Ledger was discovered by his masseuse on Jan. 22 after she arrived for an appointment that afternoon. She entered his bedroom to set up for the massage and found him unresponsive, and proceeded to call Mary-Kate Olsen three times over the next 9 minutes before dialing 911. Ledger had been dead for some time, and police say no foul play occurred.

Ledger, nominated for an Oscar for his role in "Brokeback Mountain," had returned to New York from London days before his death, where he had been filming a $30 million Terry Gilliam film. He said in a November interview that his most recent completed roles in the Batman movie "The Dark Night" and Bob Dylan biopic "I'm Not There" had taken a toll, saying he couldn't sleep.

"Last week I probably slept an average of two hours a night," Ledger told The New York Times. "I couldn't stop thinking. My body was exhausted, and my mind was still going." He said he had taken two Ambien pills, which only gave him an hour of sleep.

Ledger's family returned to the actor's hometown of Perth, Australia on Tuesday to prepare for his funeral. Arrangements were private.

In a statement released through Ledger's publicist, Ledger's father, Kim, said Wednesday: "While no medications were taken in excess, we learned today the combination of doctor-prescribed drugs proved lethal for our boy. Heath's accidental death serves as a caution to the hidden dangers of combining prescription medication, even at low dosage."

02 February 2008 @ 07:12 pm
Snatched from ashmedai

(A few #'s are mysteriously missing)

01. Elaborate on your default icon.
Not so much to elaborate on there. BoyWonder...Robin...

03. Ever have a near-death experience?
Nope and not really missing it.

04. Name an obvious quality you have.
Kindness (I hope it's and obvious quality).

05. What's the name of the song that's stuck in your head right now?
"You made me love you"...lol, but not exactly. There is a photo of my dof Roo, who passed away years ago, near me...and I used to sing to him..."Roo made me love Roo". Hahahaha! I know...embarassing, right? I had many of those, including "Roo and me against the World" and so many others!

06. Any celeb you would marry?
Hahahaha...can't I just co-habitate with several of them?.

08. Has anyone ever said you look like a celebrity?
I've been told I look like a few different celebrities and the funny thing is that those celebrities don't reallt resemble each other!.

09. Do you wear a watch?
Nope, my cellphone has the time on it.

10. Do you have anything pierced?
I used to have my ears pierced, but let those grow in a few years back.

11. Do you have any tattoos?
Not yet

13. Do you like to shop?

14. What was the last thing you paid for with cash?
Just ran out to Wal Mart and grabbed some groceries, a movie and headphones.

15. What was the last thing you paid for with your credit card?
An airline ticket many years ago, I think.
16. Who was the last person you spoke to on the phone?
My younger sis.

18. What is the background on your cell phone?
Swimming angel fishwith the digital time and day showing along the bottom..

19. Do you like redheads?
Sure, hair color doesn't determine whether or not I like or dislike someone.

20. Do you know any twins?
Yep, a lady I know has twin sons.

21. Do you have any weird relatives?
Hahahaha...too many of them!

22. What was the last movie you watched?
National Treasure...finally. My nephew has hounded me until I finally bought it and watched it.

23. What was the last book you read?
"White Night" by Jim Butcher (the latest of the Dresden Files) ...that's not counting Graphic Novels of course.

25. What's your favorite book?
This is an impossible question. I have so many in so many genres...I couldn't possibly name a favorite.

26. When was the last time you visited the street where you first lived?
It's been many years.

27. When was the last time you googled your own name?
Months ago I did it because someone at work sent this email about googling your name for some reason.

28. What was/is your favorite subject at school?
Art and History were my favorites.

29. What was is your least favorite subject at school?
Math/Algebra...blecccch! LOL!
30. Do you like having your photograph taken?
I love to take photos, but not really be in them...except when I'min costume! LOL! On Halloween or at some masquerade,I have no problem...or if I'm posing with someone else.

32. Ever seriously questioned your sanity?
There are days I will say I think I'm going crazy, but...I guess I haven't seriously questioned my sanity.

33. How many phone numbers do you have remembered and can say off the top of your head?
Quite a few

34. Can you Limbo?
Sure...now...can I do it well?That's another question....

35. Have you ever killed your own dinner?
Nope and I'm not sure that I could.

36. How long have you been living at your current residence?
LOL...did a census taker make up these questions?

38. What's your ideal breakfast?
Hmmmmm...fried eggs, bacon, biscuits, milk gravy, applejuice.

39. Where are you right now?

40. Why do you blog?
I don't know...because I like people.

41. What would you call your autobiography?
LOL...I'd love to steal.Burt Ward's book title "BoyWonder: My Life in Tights", but then it would sound like I'm a crossdresser and I'm not...I really don't have the flair for it.

42. What's the longest time you've stayed out of the country/where?
I was on vacation 2 1/2 weeks in Australia and also 2 1/2 weeks in Greece.

43. Do you use ICQ, AIM, etc..?
I use AIM.

44. Do you have nightmares frequently?
I've had nightmares, but luckily, not frequently.

45. If you were another person, would you be friends with you?
Yeah, I think so...I like to think I'm a nice guy...personable and all that.

46. Which TV character could you be friends with?
LOL...maybe it would be fun to hangout with the girls from Sex in the City or some of the boys from QAF.

47. What's on your mouse pad?
I don't have one...I have an optic mouse.

**I tag anyone who feelslike doing it!**

02 February 2008 @ 03:56 pm

Phil Says Six More Weeks of Winter!

Phil's official forecast as read 2/2/08 at sunrise at Gobbler's Knob:

Here Ye! Here Ye! Here Ye!

On Gobbler's Knob on this fabolous Groundhog Day, February 2nd, 2008
Punxsutawney Phil, the Seer of Seers, Prognosticator of all Prognosticators,
Rose to the call of President Bill Cooper and greeted his handlers, Ben Hughes and John Griffiths.

After casting a weathered eye toward thousands of his faithful followers,
Phil consulted with President Cooper and directed him to the appropriate scroll, which proclaimed:

"As I look around me, a bright sky I see, and a shadow beside me.
Six more weeks of winter it will be!"

Scenes from the morning of February 2, 2008:

For more images or info, check out the site at http://www.groundhog.org/prediction/

22 January 2008 @ 05:53 pm


NEW YORK - Heath Ledger was found dead Tuesday at a downtown Manhattan residence, and police said drugs may have been a factor. He was 28.

NYPD spokesman Paul Browne said Ledger had an appointment for a massage at the Manhattan apartment believed to be his home. The housekeeper who went to let him know the masseuse had arrived found him dead at 3:26 p.m.

A large crowd of paparazzi and gawkers began gathering Tuesday evening outside the building on an upscale block in SoHo, where several police officers guarded the door.

The Australian-born actor was nominated for an Oscar for "Brokeback Mountain," where he met Michelle Williams in 2005. The two had lived in Brooklyn and had a daughter, Matilda, until they split up last year.

He most recently appeared in "I'm Not There," in which he played one of the many incarnations of Bob Dylan ƒƒ‚‚ as did Cate Blanchett, whose performance in that film earned an Oscar nomination Tuesday for best supporting actress.

Ledger was to appear as the Joker this year in "The Dark Night," a sequel to 2005's "Batman Begins." He's had starring roles in "A Knight's Tale" and "The Patriot," and played the suicidal son of Billy Bob Thornton in "Monster's Ball."

Ledger grew up in Perth, and began doing amateur theater at age 10. At 16, he moved to Sydney to pursue an acting career, quickly landing TV movie roles and guest spots on Australian television.

After several independent films and a starring role in the short-lived Fox TV series "Roar," Ledger moved to Los Angeles and costarred in "10 Things I Hate About You," a teen comedy reworking of "The Taming of the Shrew."

Offers for other teen flicks came his way, but Ledger turned them down, preferring to remain idle than sign on for projects he didn't like.

"It wasn't a hard decision for me," Ledger told the Associated Press in 2001. "It was hard for everyone else around me to understand. Agents were like, 'You're crazy,' my parents were like, 'Come on, you have to eat.'"
17 January 2008 @ 06:15 pm


"A fast-moving storm brought a light blanket of snow into much of Central Maryland today, snarling traffic, closing schools early and creating blizzard-like conditions in some areas. The weather caused a number of accidents, and I-95 was shut down in both directions near Beltsville due to downed power lines."

11 January 2008 @ 06:30 pm
Today was my dad's birthday. He passed many years ago. LOL...he was from West Virginia and called himself the "Old Man from the Mountains"...so, Happy Birthday, Old Man! We miss you!

02 January 2008 @ 12:11 pm
Well Happy New Year everyone! I was invited out, but opted to stay in and burrow like some woodland creature. LOL. It was cold out and I was already feeling drowsy when I got off of work so I just decided to stay home. No biggie...I chatted with my sweetie Jase, ate some pie and ice cream, wrote a bit, rewatched Narnia and then watched... THE BOURNE ULTIMATUM...

...for the first time! WHOA! Talk about a rush! Those who know me know that I'm a Matt fan, but he's incredible in this movie and this movie is wild! Non-stop action! If you're an action film junkie, see this one! There is not only action, but intrigue within intrigue to be had...I swear, I don't know how some of these secret service personnel keep anything straight! LOL! I'm dying to say more, but I don't want to give anything away to those who haven't seen the movie...so I'll stop now and just say Happy New Year Again!

P.S. Not that this has anything to do with anything, but has anyone ever noticed how long Matt Damon's fingers are?! :b

25 December 2007 @ 03:01 pm

23 December 2007 @ 11:50 pm
Yesterday, I drove mom over to one of our malls and spent the day picking up the last few gifts I had to get...mostly gift certificates for the hard to buy for members of the family and stocking stuffers from Bun Penny. OMG...LOL...It was a madhouse...sooooooooooooo packed! It took us forever to get a seat in the food court! The one good thing was that I got to chat with Jase when I got home! I had missed him Friday night because I was on babysitting duty...watched my niece and nephew while my sis and her husband went to a "Snowflake Ball". We had a great time...watched movies, ate pizza and made sundaes.

So...today, I spent the entire day wrapping packages! I wrapped all of my packages and all of my mom's packages (except for my own that is)...I didn't finish until sometime after 7:00! I was drained! While I wrapped,I popped "STARDUST" into the DVD player and watched it. WOW! I really enjoyed it!

Needless to say, I plan on watching again without the distraction of wrapping packages, but I saw enough to know it was well acted, had brilliant effects, costuming, etc! I had read Neil Gaiman's book years ago and enjoyed it immensely so I had been looking forward to seeing this...and I wasn't disappointed. Now I wish they would bring 'NEVERWHERE' and 'AMERICAN GODS' to the Silver Screen!

17 December 2007 @ 09:33 am
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14 December 2007 @ 12:37 pm

Your Score: Average

You scored 44% Hairyness!

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You are the average Joe/Jill in the world of hair. Not likely to stick out in public, and not likely to be confused with an ape or member of the opposite sex. (Doesn't necessarily mean you're a gay cowboy or a redhead with excessive lipstick though)

Link: The How Hairy Are You Test written by mr-jethro on OkCupid Free Online Dating, home of the The Dating Persona Test